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Love How Deep Blog

As a busy Married Couple, we hope that you will find the articles here easy to read and that can be applied in simple ways in your relationship. Ultimately with everything we do, we want to help connect you more closely to each other on a foundation of Godly wisdom.

The Shepherd’s Psalm: How Trusting God Brings Peace to Your Marriage

When you're arguing with your spouse over something you believe you "need," pause and ask the Lord: "Why do I truly want this, and what do you want for me?" Acknowledging that God gives us everything we need is the first step toward finding contentment and stopping the disagreement.

Oct 225 min read

The Silent Root: Why We Fight and How to Find Peace

Think about that. The origin of the conflict isn't the trash can; it's the internal battle raging inside each of us. It is the clash of two separate, self-centered desires that often turns a simple disagreement into an all-out war. It’s the voice inside saying, "I want what I want, and I want it now."

Oct 155 min read

Can Your Marriage Survive an Affair? I Believe It Can

You must be completely honest about what happened. Some people argue against sharing every detail of a sexual affair to protect their spouse from further pain. While I understand that sentiment—and it’s true that graphic details can cause PTSD—you must be honest about everything else.

Oct 84 min read

I Don’t Have Time: How to Find More Time in Your Life

Maybe you want to start exercising more, but you just don't have the time. My challenge to you is to start with a small, manageable commitment. Try waking up just 15 minutes earlier than you normally do. You probably won't be able to run four miles in 15 minutes, but that's okay. The goal is to build a habit.

Oct 13 min read

When Your Spouse Is Stuck: How to Help Them Get Out of the Funk

You see your spouse struggling to get unstuck, and you don't know how to help. You might even feel more irritated than helpful. But if we're going to love our spouses with a godly love, we have to move past that frustration and toward compassion.

Sep 243 min read

When Rage Boils Over: A Husband's Honest Guide to Repairing the Damage

You blow up in anger at your wife. If your stomach just clenched a little, or if a specific memory flashed through your mind, know this: you’re not alone. And as much as I wish I could say I’m immune, I can’t

Aug 206 min read

Are Personality Differences Wrecking Your Marriage? How to Bridge the Gap!

If neither one of you is very organized, and I’m going to start talking about your money right now: you have to be organized with your finances too! So that you’re not getting into financial debt. There are resources out there that can help you create those budgets if your brain says, 'No, I cannot live in an Excel spreadsheet and do budgets!' Budgets… it's a bad word for some. But it’s a safety measure so that you stay out of debt. So I encourage you to look for something li

Aug 136 min read