Stop Having the Same Argument Over and Over
Discover what is really happening underneath your recurring conflict—and learn a practical, Christ-centered process that helps both spouses feel heard, understood and connected.
The Communication Experience Webinar
Saturday, September 26, 2026 | 10 am - 12 pm ET | Live Online
$40 Per Couple
Does this Sound Familiar?
You see the overflowing trash can... again.
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You think: “He doesn’t see me. He doesn’t see everything I’m juggling. If I have to ask him one more time... I just wish he would know.” She lets out an exasperated sigh and criticizes him for not taking the trash out like you asked.
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He walks in, exhausted from work.
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He thinks: “I just walked in. I haven’t even had five minutes to breathe, and I can already tell she’s mad. I can’t do anything right. Here comes the nag.” He crosses his arms, bracing for impact.
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What's It Really About?
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This isn't a fight about trash. It's a fight about feeling unseen, unvalued, and unheard.
We know this fight. We’re Brian and Heather Mayer, and of course we have had this argument and have been stuck in this exact same loop. We love God, and we love each other, but sometimes we struggle to know how to show it in the middle of conflict.
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We know that Christ-centered communication isn’t just about the words we say. It’s about understanding the unseen—the hidden influences from our past, the unspoken needs in our hearts, and the spiritual foundation holding it all together.
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We created this 2-hour experience to give you the exact framework that transformed our marriage. We want to help you stop fighting against each other and start fighting for each other.
Saturday, September 26, 2026 | 10 am - 12 pm ET | Live Online
$40 Per Couple
What You Will Experience in These 2 Hours
This is a hands-on, interactive workshop where you and your spouse will gain a greater understanding of each other.
You will learn tools to build resilient communication to foster a God honoring marriage.
Discover the #1 Predictor of a Divorce Proof Marriage
(Hint: It's a daily practice proven to lower the divorce rate to less than 1 in 1,000. We’ll show you exactly how to start, even if it feels awkward.)
Decode
Your
"Conflict Blueprint"
Find out why you react the way you do. We’ll dive into your Family of Origin, your 5 Core Childhood Needs, and your unique "Sacred Pathway" to God—and how it all impacts your communication style.
See the
"Thought Bubbles" Before They Explode
We'll show you how to read the unseen messages you and your spouse are sending 24/7, so you can stop misinterpreting and start understanding.
Learn the Art of Conflict Repair
Stop Dr. Gottman's "Four Horsemen" (Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, Stonewalling) in their tracks. We’ll give you simple, grace-filled, "I feel..." and Active Listening scripts that actually work.
Build Your Daily "Maintenance Plan"
Learn simple, powerful habits to make connection automatic, from the 6-Second Kiss (Oxytocin!) to Couch Time and the "One Thing" goal-setting method.
A Downloadable "Couple's Workbook"
Full of the quizzes, activities, and discussion prompts you’ll use during the workshop to spark real, meaningful conversation with your partner.
LIVE with Brian & Heather
This is live and so you will get to hear from us and ask us your specific questions! We’re setting aside dedicated time to help you get the breakthroughs you need.
Get "Conflict Reset" Scripts
(Hint: It's a daily practice proven to lower the divorce rate to less than 1 in 1,000. We’ll show you exactly how to start, even if it feels awkward.)
Presented by
Brian & Heather Mayer
Brian and Heather Mayer are the founders of Love How Deep, a ministry dedicated to helping Christian couples build resilient, God-honoring marriages.
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After navigating their own difficult pasts, they discovered a passion for helping couples uncover the unseen patterns that drive conflict.
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They have 15 years of real-life marriage experience with practical, biblical tools to move couples from just surviving to truly thriving.
What Have Couples Said About Us?
​The most valuable takeaway was the Biblical Perspective and the Meaningful Exercises. So very well done. We really benefitted from participating. David and Elizabeth Ellen Huffman
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My wife and I really enjoyed the webinar. It was very relaxed and offered a no pressure to environment where we could just sit back and absorb the content. The exercises were all extremely helpful and impactful. We learned a lot and we intend to implement and uphold going forward! Anonymous
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Your wisdom and gentle guidance helped us navigate both personal growth and shared
vision. Your thoughtful questions and professional insight brought depth to our journey that words can hardly capture. Stephen and Krystina Sterne
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Everything was great! Loved the Teaching, the Exercises and the Personal Testimonies.
Vicki Tyler-Waters
Are You Ready to Change the Script?
Stop letting unseen triggers and old patterns steal your connection. The Communication Experience is your chance to finally build the partnership you’ve been praying for.
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We are so confident that this 2-hour experience will transform your connection that we’re making this promise:
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Attend the entire 2-hour Communication Experience. Participate in the activities. If you get to the end and honestly feel you didn’t get at least one breakthrough "a-ha" moment or a new tool that can help your marriage, just send us an email within 24 hours.
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We will refund 100% of your ticket price. No questions asked.
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We are taking on all the risk so you can focus on your breakthrough. You have nothing to lose and a new level of connection to gain.
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Saturday, September 26, 2026 | 10 am - 12 pm ET | Live Online
$40 Per Couple