Help Your Couples Build Stronger Christ-Centered Marriages Without Adding to Your Burnout
Dynamic keynotes, interactive workshops, and full-day marriage conferences designed for your church. Led live by Brian & Heather Mayer—bringing expert guidance, biblical truth, and hands-on experiences directly to your congregation.
You Want Thriving Marriages in Your Church
But You Can’t Do It Alone
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Ministry Burnout: Pastoral counseling for couples takes high emotional energy and hours of schedule space you simply don't have.
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Lack of Time & Turnkey Resources: Planning an impactful marriage event from scratch requires prep, curriculum, and logistics that overwhelm small or busy ministry teams.
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Superficial Programs: Many secular programs leave God out, while some Christian events offer great inspiration but lack practical, hands-on tools for long-term change.
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You shouldn't have to carry the burden of marriage ministry alone. Your church deserves engaging, scripture-grounded, and deeply practical marriage experiences that deliver lasting transformation.
Hi, We're Brian & Heather Mayer
We’re a real couple who love Jesus and understand the messy, beautiful reality of marriage.
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Practical Expertise: Brian is a Licensed Therapist and owner of a private counseling practice who has guided hundreds of couples through healing and growth. Heather is a teacher with 30 years of experience.
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Marriage Experience: We have mentored and counseled hundreds of couples since 2011 and led marriage mentoring ministries in local churches since 2018.
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Scriptural Foundation: Rooted in Ephesians 3:16–20, everything we teach connects couples back to God’s deep, establishing love.
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Live & In-Person: We come to your venue, interact with your people, and walk alongside your congregation in real time.​​​​​
Pick Your Focus
Every church family has unique needs. You can mix and match any of these core themes for your Keynote, Workshop, or Intensive:
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The Communication Experience: Break toxic argument loops, learn active listening, and build emotional safety.​
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The Forgiveness Experience: Process past hurts, rebuild broken trust, and move forward in Christ's grace.
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​Mapping A Visionary Marriage Experience : A practical, forward-looking session where couples align their spiritual, financial, and relational goals to build a shared, Christ-centered vision for their future.
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Making it Through The Mess: Learning how to navigate life's storms by healing in two directions through a renewed reliance on God and trustworthy people.
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The Love How Deep Marriage Conference: Fully immersive conference experience to help married couples incorporating 9 Keys to Connected Marriage to align the marriage relationship as a direct reflection of an individual walk with God.​​
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​​Redeemed & Restored (For Women): Heather shares her powerful testimony of surviving and healing from an abusive marriage, guiding women to anchor their worth in Jesus and experience the restoring power of God’s love.
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Anchor and Armor (For Men): Brian opens up about the heartbreak of a past marriage built without Jesus, giving men an honest, practical roadmap for leading their families with humility, strength, and biblical principles.​
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How It Works
Schedule a Call
We’ll discuss your church’s goals, budget, setup, and ideal event dates.
Customize Your Event
Select your format (1-hr, 2-hr, 4-hr, or Conference) and tailor the topics to your congregation.
Host and Inspire
We show up at your venue ready to serve, teach, and equip your couples—while you sit back and enjoy the event.
Flexible Speaking Formats
Keynote
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​​​​Best For: Sunday morning services, mid-week gatherings, date nights, or kick-off events.
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Format: Fast-paced, inspiring, and scripturally grounded teaching with 1–2 practical takeaways couples can apply immediately. Up to 1 Hour.
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What to Expect: High engagement, relatable humor, and an uplifting message that casts a vision for what God-centered marriage looks like.
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Popular Topics: Making it Through The Mess, Communication That Connects, or Cultivating Forgiveness.
2 Hour Interactive Workshop
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​​​​Best For: Friday night date nights, Saturday morning seminars, or ministry retreat sessions.
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Format: 60% teaching & stories + 40% hands-on couple exercises.
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What to Expect: We move beyond passive listening. Couples receive actionable tools and quiet, guided time together to practice new skills on the spot.
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Popular Topics: The Communication Experience, The Forgiveness Experience or Mapping the Visionary Marriage.
4 Hour Half Day Intensive
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​​​​Best For: Saturday morning intensives or church-wide marriage workshops.
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Format: Multiple focused modules with built-in breaks, individual worksheets, and private couple breakout exercises.
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What to Expect: Deep dive into specific relational obstacles (trust, intimacy, emotional connection, and conflict resolution) with guided workbook activities. Includes debrief sessions and open Q&A.
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Popular Topics: The Communication Experience, The Forgiveness Experience, Redeemed & Restored (For Women), or Anchor and Armor (For Men).
Full Day Marriage Conference
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​​​​Best For: Annual church marriage retreats, One or 1.5 day weekend conferences (Saturday or Friday Night + Saturday).
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Format: Our premier Love How Deep Couples Experience—9 foundational sessions spanning individual growth, mutual healing, and relational celebration.
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What to Expect:
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Full workbooks provided for every couple.​
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Deep, private moments for couples to reconnect spiritually and emotionally without forced group sharing.​
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Turnkey delivery: We teach, facilitate, and guide—your team just handles space and tech.​
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FAQ
Q: Do we have to provide food or materials?
A: We provide all workbooks and digital session guides. Food and light refreshments can be managed by your ministry team or factored into the event hosting plan.
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Q: Is group sharing required for participants?
A: No. We protect each couple’s privacy. All personal exercises are designed for the couple to complete privately between themselves.
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Q: What are the tech and venue requirements?
A: A basic AV setup (sound/mics and a presentation screen) is all we need. We handle the rest!
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Q: How does pricing work?
A: Pricing varies depending on format, travel requirements, and event length. Many churches offer the event free to members, while others charge a nominal ticket fee to cover costs. We will be happy to discuss pricing in more detail to understand what works with your budget.
