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Love How Deep Blog

As a busy Married Couple, we hope that you will find the articles here easy to read and that can be applied in simple ways in your relationship. Ultimately with everything we do, we want to help connect you more closely to each other on a foundation of Godly wisdom.

Martha, Mary, and the Lost Art of Presence in Marriage

Martha is the quintessential hostess. She throws herself into the task of hospitality. If you’ve ever hosted a party, a baby shower, or even just friends for dinner, you can identify with Martha’s brain space: the constant list-making, the purchasing, the preparation, the cleaning, and the cooking. Why do we immerse ourselves in this frenzy? Because we want it to be perfect. We want to impress the guest—and in Martha's case, the guest was Jesus, the Son of God.

Oct 295 min read

The Shepherd’s Psalm: How Trusting God Brings Peace to Your Marriage

When you're arguing with your spouse over something you believe you "need," pause and ask the Lord: "Why do I truly want this, and what do you want for me?" Acknowledging that God gives us everything we need is the first step toward finding contentment and stopping the disagreement.

Oct 225 min read

The Silent Root: Why We Fight and How to Find Peace

Think about that. The origin of the conflict isn't the trash can; it's the internal battle raging inside each of us. It is the clash of two separate, self-centered desires that often turns a simple disagreement into an all-out war. It’s the voice inside saying, "I want what I want, and I want it now."

Oct 155 min read

When Your Spouse Is Stuck: How to Help Them Get Out of the Funk

You see your spouse struggling to get unstuck, and you don't know how to help. You might even feel more irritated than helpful. But if we're going to love our spouses with a godly love, we have to move past that frustration and toward compassion.

Sep 243 min read

What Does Jesus's Death on the Cross Have to Do with Your Marriage?

If we truly want to have a marriage that is "Christ-like," we have to look to the cross as our ultimate guide. It teaches us three powerful lessons: the meaning of sacrificial love, the gift of grace and mercy, and the importance of selflessness.

Sep 174 min read

You Don't Know the Plan for Your Future, But God Does: Finding Peace in Jeremiah 29:11

When God uses the word "declares," it’s not an assumption or a possibility. It’s a statement of absolute certainty, a promise from the one who holds all things in His hands.

Sep 105 min read

When Rage Boils Over: A Husband's Honest Guide to Repairing the Damage

You blow up in anger at your wife. If your stomach just clenched a little, or if a specific memory flashed through your mind, know this: you’re not alone. And as much as I wish I could say I’m immune, I can’t

Aug 206 min read

Are Personality Differences Wrecking Your Marriage? How to Bridge the Gap!

If neither one of you is very organized, and I’m going to start talking about your money right now: you have to be organized with your finances too! So that you’re not getting into financial debt. There are resources out there that can help you create those budgets if your brain says, 'No, I cannot live in an Excel spreadsheet and do budgets!' Budgets… it's a bad word for some. But it’s a safety measure so that you stay out of debt. So I encourage you to look for something li

Aug 136 min read