Tired of the same old date night ideas? Take a look at these for something different!
I don't know about you, but we are always looking for creative date night ideas. However, we always run into the same ideas over and over again. Of course we all love dinner and a movie but sometimes something different is just what we need to bring the connection back as a busy Christian married couple.
And being Christian doesn't mean we have to be boring. While reading the Bible together, praying with and for each other are extremely important, we are going to put that to the side just for a little bit. The intent of what you are about to read is to get you thinking differently about doing something as a couple that is different and outside the box . Although funny as I say "outside the box" to me that feels old and dated. So I probably need to come up with a new phrase for the creative connecting shared experiences you are about to see.
Blindfolded Trust Walk
This one can be a lot of fun, but be careful! One partner is blindfolded, and the other partner guides them through an obstacle course or a natural setting. The blindfolded partner has to trust their spouse completely. Afterward, you can both discuss the feelings of trust, vulnerability, and communication that arose during the activity. Remember communicating after an activity like this is just as important for busy Christian married couples to connect as is the activity.
Cooking Challenge
You and your spouse can work together to prepare a meal, but with a twist. You have to follow a recipe without using any verbal communication. This will require you to pay close attention to each other's actions, practice patience, and adapt to non-verbal cues. After the meal is prepared, you can talk about how you navigated the challenge and what you learned about teamwork.
Dance Lesson
Take a dance class together, such as ballroom, salsa, or tango. Learning to dance as a couple involves physical coordination, communication through movement, and a sense of rhythm. After the lesson, reflect on how you both felt while dancing and how it translated into your emotional connection.
Outdoor Adventure
Plan a day of outdoor activities like rock climbing, kayaking, or hiking. These activities require teamwork, trust, and communication to navigate challenges and achieve shared goals. During breaks or after the adventure, discuss how the experience strengthened your connection and reliance on each other.
To make this one extra creative. take turns on who plans the activity and who will take the lead. Then practice leading with authority (and grace) and also following with respect.
Artistic Collaboration
Collaborate on a creative project, such as painting a canvas together or writing a story as a team. Expressing yourselves artistically can help you tap into your emotions and communicate in unique ways. Discuss the process and the emotions that emerged during the creative collaboration.
Heather and I have done something like this, although we bought 2 pencil drawing art kits and sketch books. We purchased an inexpensive online art course that we both worked from together. Talk about a connecting that we forged as a busy Christian married couple. If there was one, that was it.
Escape Room Challenge
In this one, you both can visit an escape room and work together to solve puzzles, decipher clues, and escape within a time limit. This activity promotes problem-solving, effective communication, and teamwork. Afterward, discuss the roles you both took on, the challenges you faced, and how you collaborated to succeed.
Heather and I both did this one, but as part of a group. As I am writing this, I am thinking it would be fun to do as just a couple.
DIY Home Improvement Project
Choose a home improvement project, like building a piece of furniture or renovating a room. Working together on a hands-on project will require planning, cooperation, and compromise. Reflect on the decisions you made together, the skills you contributed, and how the project strengthened your bond.
Be careful with this one, as I know that many couples can struggle with this. Sometimes putting things together can create stress just by itself. So make sure to either pick something that is not terribly complicated or if it is to make sure you communicate before you start.
Outdoor Yoga or Tai Chi
Participate in an outdoor yoga or tai chi class together. These activities promote physical well-being, mindfulness, and synchronization of movements together to once again promote connecting as a busy Christian married couple. After the session, talk about how you felt both individually and as a couple during the practice, focusing on the mind-body connection.
Photography Scavenger Hunt
Create a list of specific items, themes, or emotions you want to capture through photography. Then, go on a scavenger hunt with cameras or smartphones. Discuss the photos you've taken, the memories associated with each, and the emotions they evoke. This activity encourages creativity and shared experiences.
I also like the idea of going around the house looking for photos that have already been taken. You could come with different ones to look for, such as to find a photo that someone is wearing white or find a photo where someone is not smiling.
Couples' Massage Workshop
Take a couples' massage class to learn the art of giving massages. Massaging each other can foster physical closeness, trust, and relaxation. After the workshop, discuss the importance of touch in your relationship and how it can deepen your emotional connection.
I hope these ideas get the creativity flowing in your relationship. After all, being a busy Christian married couple sometimes gives us little time for these creative ideas.
One More Thing Before You Go
If you need some additional help to communicate before, during, and after these activities, we recommend that you pick up our Free "10 Practical Communication Strategies" guide. This guide is for busy Christian Married Couples who want to communicate and connect more deeply. The guide has a communication quiz, the 10 tips, and conversation starters for each tip.
Happy Connecting!
Commenti